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- Misc.kids Frequently Asked Questions
- Prenatal Testing - Overview and Personal Stories
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- [NOTE: this is information collected from many sources and while I
- have strived to be accurate and complete, I cannot guarantee that I
- have succeeded. This is not medical advice. For that, see your
- doctor or other health care provider.]
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- Acknowledgements:
- Many people helped with the prenatal testing FAQs by advising about
- the best way to structure them, by contributing stories and information,
- or by reviewing versions of the FAQs. I would like to acknowledge:
- Belinda J.F. Rossiter, Kathy S Leggitt, Fulvia Pilat, Maurine Neiberg,
- Lori May, Sabrina Cuddy, Robert Brenner MD, Dr. T. Reynolds, Thunder
- Storm, Marion Baumgarten, Robin Elise Seibert, Michelle Kraiman Gross,
- Liz Farrell, Marya E Vanthul, Tracy Lee Murphy, Trish Jalbert, Dena Rollo
- and the women who contributed their experiences with the tests. (Of course,
- I am responsible for any mistakes, etc.)
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- Note on language: When I first posted the questions for the prenatal testing
- FAQs, I used the term "birth defects" (except for question 7 of the Prenatal
- Testing Overview FAQ). Since I have been advised that this term may be
- offensive to people in the disabled community, I changed the wording of the
- final FAQs to use the word "disability," but most replies still reflect the
- original wording of the questions.
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-
- I. General Questions
-
- Q1. What prenatal tests are available?
-
- Blood testing: screening for carriers of various disabilities (most
- commonly Tay-Sachs and sickle cell anemia), blood typing to determine Rh
- factor, tests of antibodies (e.g. to determine immunity to rubella or
- measles or exposure to HIV). The more common tests to screen for
- disabilities are the AFP or Triple Screen or Down's screen (different
- names for this test depend on how many factors are being screened),
- ultrasound, amniocentesis, chorionic villus sampling; ultrasound is also
- used for various other purposes. More experimental methods of screening
- for disabilities include PUBS (percutaneous umbilical cord sampling, in
- which fetal blood is obtained from the umbilical cord), fetoscopy, cell
- sorting, and fetal skin sampling; these methods are not available
- everywhere, and some are available only in a few research centers.
- Pregnant women may also be tested for gestational diabetes, and some women
- late in pregnancy will receive stress and non-stress tests.
-
- There are misc.kids FAQs available on the AFP, ultrasound, amniocentesis,
- prepregnancy and pregnancy tests, Rh factor, and gestational diabetes.
-
- Q1a. Why are certain tests suggested for a specific sub-population,
- eg Tay-sachs for European Jews; toxoplasmosis for cat-owners; Downs
- for over-35 y.o.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Robbrenner@aol.com (Robert Brenner MD):
-
- 1a. Tay Sachs testing is recommended for Jews of eastern European heritage
- because these are the people who are the most likely to carry the gene.
- Testing should be done prior to pregnancy as it is more accurate. Most cases
- of toxoplasmosis are not caused from cats but from poorly cooked meat.
- Therefore, toxoplasmosis testing for cat owners is probably not necessary.
- Down syndrome screening is available for all pregnant women by a blood test
- called the triple screen. It consists of serum alpha-fetoprotein, estriol,
- and HCG. Amniocentesis with chromosomal analysis is the most accurate test.
- The reason amniocentesis is offered to women age 35 and older is because the
- risk of losing a pregnancy after amniocentesis is the same as the risk of
- Down syndrome at age 35 (1 in 270).
- -----------------------------------------
-
- There is a FAQ in the pub/usenet/rec-pets-cats directory of rtfm.mit.edu
- which includes some discussion of toxoplasmosis and cat ownership, for
- those who want more details on that.
-
- Q1b. Is there a certain time sequence that the tests should be done
- wrt conception and pregnancy?
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Robbrenner@aol.com (Robert Brenner MD):
-
- 1b. Blood testing for immunity to Rubella and Tay-Sachs testing should be
- done prior to conception. Blood testing for HIV and sickle cell can be done
- either prior to or after conception. Serum alpha-fetoprotein and triple
- screen for Down syndrome are done at 16-18 weeks. The ideal time to pick up
- structural congenital anomalies on ultrasound is 16-18 weeks.
- -----------------------------------------
-
- 1c. What are some further sources of information about prenatal tests?
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Kathy S Leggitt:
-
- In my childbirth classes I like to handout Penny Simkin's
- brochure called "Obstetric Tests and Technologies". This
- is available individually, or in a group of brochures
- called the "Better Baby Series."
-
- They are really good brochures for an overview on many
- topics, and the Obstetric Tests and Technologies one is
- very well written. They can be ordered from the
- International Childbirth Education Association,
- P. O. Box 20048, Minneapolis, MN 55420-0048.
- -----------------------------------------
-
- _Prenatal Tests_ by Robin Blatt is a consumer's guide to prenatal tests.
- Some books which address issues related to prenatal testing: _The
- Tentative Pregnancy_, by Barbara Katz Rothman, _Women and Prenatal
- Testing_, edited by Karen H. Rothenberg and Elizabeth J. Thomson, and
- _Exploding the Gene Myth_, by Ruth Hubbard and Elijah Wald (Beacon Press,
- 1992).
-
- Q2. Disabilities
-
- Q2a. What disabilities can be detected by these tests?
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Robbrenner@aol.com (Robert Brenner MD):
-
- 2a. There are too numerous birth defects to list. In general prenatal
- testing can pick up all chromosomal abnormalities, many structural
- abnormalities, and many metabolic abnormalities.
- -----------------------------------------
-
-
- Two of the most common disabilities which are tested for are Down
- Syndrome and neural tube defects. Some information on these follows.
-
- Neural tube defects are one of the leading disabilities among newborns.
- The main neural tube defects are anencephaly and spina bifida. Infants
- with anencephaly are born with a malformed brain and skull; they are
- stillborn or die shortly after birth. Spina Bifida occurs when the
- spinal cord does not completely close. Until the 1960's, many newborns
- died of hydrocephalus. Now 80-95% survive to adulthood. The degree of
- disability varies depending on how severely the spinal cord has been
- affected and where on the spinal cord the problem occurs. It may involve
- a slight limp, or paralysis and use of a wheelchair. People with spina
- bifida may be incontinent, and some have kidney and urinary tract
- problems. Intelligence is not affected unless the complication of
- hydrocephalus is present.
-
- Neural tube defects are influenced both by genetics and by the
- environment. There is a lot of geographic variation in frequency, with
- incidence in the United Kingdom several times that in the Unites States.
- In the United Kingdom, incidence is highest in northern Ireland and
- lowest in southern England. The frequency of neural tube defects is
- *reduced* by taking folic acid during pregnancy (women planning to be
- pregnant should start this before pregnancy, so as to be taking it during
- the time when they do not yet know they are pregnant). Spina bifida may
- be ameliorated by delivery by a scheduled C-section (see below).
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Trish Jalbert (TJalbert@aol.com):
-
- In a nutshell, Down Syndrome is the presence of three 21st chromosomes.
- There are actually three types of Down Syndrome, the most common being
- Trisomy 21 which is simply the presence of the pesky extra chromosome tacked
- on to the other two (95% of cases). In Translocational Down's the extra
- chromosome is translocated, or stuck on to, one of the other chromosomes (3
- to 4%). In Mosaicism, the person has the extra chromosome in only some of
- his or her cells (1%). It is important to find out which type of Down's
- someone has, since Translocational Down's is hereditary. The parents can be
- carriers without showing any signs of Down Syndrome themselves. One really
- important fact for us guilt-machine moms is that new research shows that in
- 70 to 80% of the time, it is the egg that contributes the extra 21st and the
- rest of the time it's the sperm. (Sperm with problems just aren't very hearty
- , I have been told.) So it's not always the mom!
- There are numerous effects. Some 12% of babies with Down Syndrome have
- gastrointestinal defects, and some 40% have heart defects. Both of these
- types of defects are correctable with surgery, although it is scary to have
- your baby have such a problem. DS kids also seem to have a susceptibility to
- infections. There can be hearing problems, thyroid problems and a few other
- things. DS babies also tend to have low muscle tone, which means that they
- may learn to crawl, walk and such like later than their regular peers. Most
- everyone is aware of the cognitive delays. Although I don't particularly
- like to judge anybody by their IQ score, DS people tend to have IQ's from 40
- to 70, which counts as moderate to mild impairment. Some people score
- higher, some lower.
- I cannot stress enough, however, that DS babies, children and adults are
- more like their relatives and like the rest of us than they are different.
- My daughter looks *just like* my husband. (It's actually rather eerie.)
- Many people seem to have heard of the stereotype of DS kids as being
- extremely loving people. While no stereotype accurately represents a person,
- I think every one is hitting on the fact that DS kids do develop quite well
- socially. This is *not* like parenting a child who is autistic. My
- daughter, who was extremely ill at birth due to meconium aspiration as well
- as a heart defect, recognized my husband and me very early on and acted much
- differently when we were at the hospital visiting her. (she spent 7 weeks in
- intensive care at birth.) My husband and I have a joke about things like
- this. We like to say "You know, DS kids usually don't (fill in blank)." The
- reality now is that we *don't know* the potential of today's babies born with
- DS. Children with DS have only recently been offered adequate schooling and
- in the past were also sometimes denied the love of their families, since many
- were sent to live in institutions. Kids and adults with DS are now
- astonishing us all. Remember Chris Burke on "Life Goes On?"
- Yes, babies with DS probably take extra work. Although a large number of
- them are perfectly healthy, a lot of parents do have major medical problems
- to deal with. When that is done, there is early intervention to think about,
- then school. Many kids with DS are now being fully included in regular
- classrooms, although that option is not for all families. Many adults can
- live is supported environments on their own- parents will not always have to
- care for their DS child.
- For me, all of the hassle has been worth it- I already cannot imagine my
- life without Miranda, who is now 3 months old. She is a very sweet baby-
- even unbiased people think so, so it must be true! ;-) And I am writing this
- on the eve of her heart surgery, something that would task any parent's
- coping. It still has all been worth it.
- -----------------------------------------
-
-
- Q2b. What disabilities can not be detected by any currently available
- prenatal test?
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Robbrenner@aol.com (Robert Brenner MD):
-
- 2b. There are many birth defects that can't be picked up on prenatal testing,
- specifically mental retardation and cerebral palsy. The list is too numerous
- to mention.
- -----------------------------------------
-
- Q2c. For which disabilities can early detection help with pre-natal care and
- delivery?
-
- In most cases, prenatal treatment is not available, and prenatal testing
- is used to give parents a choice of whether to continue the pregnancy or
- have an abortion, or to give parents an opportunity to prepare to care for
- a child with a disability. In some cases, prenatal diagnosis can also
- affect medical treatment. First, while prenatal treatments are rare and
- often experimental, there are prenatal treatments for some problems. For
- example, fetal surgery can be done for diaphramatic hernia and complete
- bladder obstruction, steroid hormones can be given before birth for
- congenital adrenal hyperplasia, biotin dependence and MMA (methylmalonic
- acidemia), both life threatening, can be detected and treated in the womb.
-
- More commonly, prenatal diagnosis can be useful at delivery time. In
- particular, there is some evidence that children with spina bifida can
- benefit from being delivered by scheduled C-section. A study published in
- the New England Journal of Medicine on March 7, 1991 indicates that babies
- with spina bifida may be much less likely to be paralyzed if delivered by
- C-section. 16% of the babies in the study who were delivered vaginally or
- by C-section after labor had begun had no paralysis. But 45% of the
- babies delivered early by C-section had no or minimal paralysis. This may
- translate into whether or not children walk.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Robbrenner@aol.com (Robert Brenner MD):
-
- 2c. Early detection can be of benefit with all types of birth defects in
- giving the couple the option to either terminate the pregnancy or prepare for
- the delivery of an affected child. Anencephaly is incompatible with life so
- that termination is quite reasonable. In those couples who object to
- termination, they can consider organ donation after the baby is born. Many
- chromosomal anomalies are also incompatible with life beyond 1 year of age
- (trisomy 18). There are also many structural defects such as diaphragmatic
- hernia, encephalocele, meningomyelocele, hydrocephalus, various cardiac and
- GI abnormalities where delivery in a tertiary care center with pediatric
- surgery available will benefit the baby. Please be aware that this list is
- far from complete but these are just a few common examples.
- -----------------------------------------
-
-
- Q2d. What are some sources of more information about the disabilities
- which these tests detect?
-
- There are many organizations which can provide more information, support,
- and an opportunity to talk with parents with experience with particular
- disabilities. These include the March of Dimes, the National
- Organization for Rare Disorders (NORD), the Cooley's Anemia Foundation,
- the National Association for Sickle Cell Disease, the Cystic Fibrosis
- Foundation, the Spina Bifida Association of America, the National
- Tay-Sachs and Allied Diseases Association, the Support Organization For
- Trisomy 13/18 (SOFT), and others too numerous to name for a variety of
- disabilities. Addresses and phone numbers for some of these
- organizations can be found in _Prenatal Tests_ by Robin Blatt, as well as
- in _Reaching Out: A Directory of Voluntary Organizations in Maternal and
- Child Health_, published by the National Center for Education in Maternal
- and Child Health (1985); 8201 Greensborough Drive; Suite 600; McLein,
- Virginia 22102.
-
- In some cases, newsgroups and mailing lists can also be found on the
- net. For example, alt.support.spina-bifida, bit.listserv.downsyn-l, the
- our-kids mailing list for parents of developmentally disabled children
- (the address for which can be found in the misc.kids FAQ list). A list
- of mailing lists on the Internet is maintained by Stephanie da Silva and
- regularly posted to news.answers. A list of support newsgroups is
- maintained by John Grohol and also posted to news.answers regularly.
- Both of these files can be retrieved by ftp from rtfm.mit.edu, or
- requested from the mail server there (to find out how to use this mail
- server, send a message to mail-server@rtfm.mit.edu with the subject
- "help").
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Trish Jalbert (TJalbert@aol.com):
-
- There are lots of sources of info for Down Syndrome, since it is one of the
- most common birth defects, occuring in approximately 1 out of 800 live
- births. Actually, since about 75% of fetuses with Down Syndrome miscarry,
- researchers think that it actually occurs in 1 of 100 to 200 pregnancies. (I
- found this amazing.) It is very important to read RECENT literature, as much
- has changed in our knowledge base and in our attitudes about people with
- disabilities.
- Online resources include:
- *The Down-Syndrome Mailing List. I've temporarily misplaced the address for
- subscriptions- I'll dig it up and send it as soon as I can.
- *AOL's Support Groups- Look under the disABILITIES area. There are chat
- groups for parents, one specifically for parents of babies, and talk of
- adding one for sibs.
- Other resources:
- *The National Down Syndrome Congress 1-800-232-6372
- *The National Down Syndrome Society 1-800-221-4602
- Both the DS Congress and the DS Society will send you free info and put you
- in touch with local parent support groups.
- * A good basic book to read: Babies with Down Syndrome- A New Parents Guide,
- edited by Karen Stray-Gundersen, Woodbine House 1986
-
- Also, I would welcome questions. If I don't know the answer, there are other
- people I know online who could answer. My e-mail address is:
- Tjalbert@aol.com
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Belinda J.F. Rossiter (rossiter@bcm.tmc.edu):
-
- I had asked whether there was any collection of information about genetic
- diseases on the Internet, written for the general public. The short
- answer is that no there isn't, as far as I can tell, unless you happen to
- be a Compuserve subscriber in which case you can access the NORD (National
- Organization for Rare Disorders) database. I'm sure that such a resource
- will eventually become generally available, but it's not clear who will
- actually do this.
-
- Here's what I found out in a bit more detail, with the aid of several
- helpful e-mail replies (thank you!):
-
- To my knowledge, there is no universally available Internet source of
- information about genetic diseases that is designed for the lay public.
- The OMIM (Online Mendelian Inheritance in Man), accessed through the
- Genome Data Base home page at "http://gdbwww.gdb.org/", is a comprehensive
- database of inherited traits but is too detailed and technical for a
- general reader. Various indexes of health resources on the WWW include
- the HealthNet WWW Demonstration Project at
- "http://debra.dgbt.doc.ca/~mike/healthnet/home.html" and the Health
- Resources list at "http://alpha.acast.nova.edu/medicine.html". These
- indexes contain links to many useful health-related resources, but I
- didn't find anything that provided lay information on genetic diseases. A
- few specific disease organizations, such as the Aneurysm Information
- Project at "http://www.columbia.edu/~mdt/" have their own WWW pages, but
- again not much if anything that is genetic.
-
- NORD (the National Organization for Rare Disorders) provides written
- material about hundreds of rare diseases (including but not restricted to
- genetic disorders) on request. Two of the objectives of this organization
- are (1) to educate the general public and medical profession about the
- existence, diagnosis, and treatment of rare disorders; and (2) to act as a
- clearinghouse for information about rare disorders and to network families
- with similar disorders together for mutual support. NORD has a WWW home
- page at "http://www.w2.com/nord1.html", through which it is possible to
- access a list of the diseases described and to order reprints at $5 per
- article. The database itself cannot be accessed through the Internet
- except by Compuserve subscribers.
-
- The other thing I found out is that the NIH is building a database
- of lay-type information on genetic and other diseases, called the Combined
- Health Information Database. The first upload should be later this year,
- and it should be generally available.
- -----------------------------------------
-
-
- Several values questions (probably best addressed by a collection of
- personal stories):
-
- Q3. How have people decided whether the tests are worthwhile for them?
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Trish Jalbert (TJalbert@aol.com):
-
- I really think that anyone who does do these tests and finds out that they
- are at risk of or are carrying a baby with a birth defect should educate
- themselves through literature rather than the word of medical staff so they
- will learn the whole truth about the situation. I took the AFP, which I had
- heard was a very unreliable test. I came up at being at increased risk for a
- Down Syndrome- I am 25, so it went from something like 1 in 1500 to 1 in 33.
- Still, I rationalized that that was a 3% risk. And they could not see any
- of the tell-tale features with an ultrasound-slightly short legs and skin
- folds on the back of the neck (these go away as the baby grows). I find that
- ironic, as Miranda has both! Two people I have met since her birth who have
- babies with DS came up with no increased risk. And lest all you young people
- think you are immune- more babies with DS are born to moms who are younger
- rather than older, since more babies are born to younger women period. It's
- just that the risk is higher as you age. After this, and a genetic counselor
- who told me that since I had felt her kick already and "you don't feel DS
- babies kick until really late" - big myth- I didn't have an amnio. We
- decided not to because we would have kept her anyway and we figured there was
- no point in risking it. Some people might want to know, however. I also
- took the other test, which shows if you have a kid with neural tube defects
- and such. I was far more concerned with that kind of stuff for some reason.
- I also had 4 ultrasounds, due to one reason and another- it was a difficult
- pregnancy for reasons unrelated to the DS. Ultrasounds are great- no risk to
- anyone, lots of info. Besides, you get cute pictures of your baby swimming
- around in there.
- -----------------------------------------
-
- Anonymous response 2:
-
- We decided we mainly wanted to be prepared if something was going to be
- wrong with our baby. That is why we had pre-natal tests. I would do
- so again in any future pregnancies. I particularly feel ultrasounds are
- valuable as the dr. can detect if the baby is not growing correctly, etc.
- and also get a better idea as to estimated due date.
- -----------------------------------------
-
- From Maurine Neiberg (maury@turing.eecs.uic.edu):
-
- We actually went through two rounds of thinking about prenatal
- testing. There's Cystic Fibrosis in my mothers family (2 of her
- cousins have it, and there were different presentations of the
- disease). I highly recommend getting tested for genetically linked
- diseases before you get pregnant. It turns out that CF is the most
- common genetically linked disease. In the Caucasian population CF
- occurs in 1 in 2000 births. In the general population, the chance of
- being a carrier of the CF gene is 1 in 22. There are 400 different
- genetic mutations responsible for CF, but labs only test for (approx.)
- the most common 25 or so mutations for your ethnic group. This
- testing detects approx. 89.1% of mutations. If you have CF in your
- family, there is greater risk, and you are best off if you can get
- ther records of any genetic testing the affected person or people have
- had. If you know which mutation to look for, you can absolutely test
- for it. Unfortunately, my relative with CF who is still living was
- either unable or unwilling to provide us with the information, so we
- just tested for the usual mutations. This is the other reason to
- think about testing before the pregnancy, since it'll give you more
- time to access your relatives medical records. There aren't many labs
- in the U.S. that do genetic (as opposed to chromosonal) testing. Ours
- were sent to Baylor, and we're still trying to get payment figured
- out. Even though there is only CF in my family, the genetics
- department here at Northwestern highly recommended that both of us be
- tested, and if only one of us were to be tested, it should be my
- husband, since we could be more sure that way. Genetic testing for CF
- cost $125 for each genetic analysis. We both tested negative for CF,
- and we got results when I was 15 weeks pregnant.
-
- Aside: A friend of mine who is now pregnant realized at her first
- prenatal visit that, since she is of French Canadian heritage that she
- could be a Tay Sachs carrier. Being Catholic, it hadn't ever occured
- to her. Her genetic counsellor told her that the test for being a Tay
- Sachs carrier is not reliable during pregnancy, so if her husband is a
- carrier, they should test the baby. It would be interesting to hear
- what others have to say about this.
-
- We also did the Triple-Screen, or what my practice calls a Pan-MSAFP
- at 15 weeks. It came back (4 days later) with an elevated risk for
- Downs Syndrome. I'm 30, so the apriori risk for Downs was approx. 1
- in 750. The aposteriori risk was 1 in 210. We had thought carefully
- about how we felt about prenatal testing, and being trained
- scientists, understand the aprior and aposteriori risk assessment. I
- was sort of ambivalent about the triple-screen, but felt strongly that
- if it came back "bad" that we would do the amnio. I was suprised at
- how upset I was about the test results and about the amnio, since we
- had made the decision to do it much earlier. I think it was in part
- because the risk was so close to the risk of something bad happening
- from the amnio. We got the call about the Pan-MSAFP on Friday at
- 5:00, and thus had the whole weekend to fret about it. Our midwife
- told us to call her over the weekend, which helped some. It was her
- assesment that a level-2 U/S wouldn't take the place of amnio, and
- would be inconclusive at best, and that we were best off just doing
- the amnio and spending less time at the hospital. In retrospect, I
- think that she was absolutely right.
-
- We scheduled the amnio for Wed. morning. There were 3 couples going
- through this at once. They showed us a silly video that explained in
- very simple terms what is tested for and what is not, and what the
- procedure entails. We then all met with a genetic counsellor to
- answer general questions. We then split up for individual genetic
- counselling. At this point, we got to see the precise results of the
- triple-screen. The AFP itself was normal-high, and actually
- _decreased_ the risk of Downs. uEstriol gave us a slightly elevated
- risk of Downs, but the HCG is what changed the odds so much. It made
- me feel better to get all of the data.
-
- BTW, our genetic counselling was done by the head of the Genetics
- Department, in part the first time and in full the second time, and
- telling him that my husband is a mathematician helped us get more
- information. He also asked if I'd participate in a study they are
- doing to find fetal cells in maternal blood. They are looking for XY
- chromasomes in maternal blood and verifying with the amnio results.
- We were the only couple of the 3 who were asked to participate, but we
- may have been the most outwardly calm.
-
- We read and signed an informed consent form, which asked us in two
- different places wheter or not we wanted to know the sex of the baby,
- and if we wanted our practitioner to know. We decided against
- knowing, though my husband was definitively voting the other way. The
- informed consent form said that the risk from the amnio is 1 in 200,
- or .5%. We were told that Northwestern's results were actually better
- than that, as are the results in any teriary care center where they
- have a dedicated amnio team who does a lot of amnios, but the American
- College of Obstetrics and Gynecology (and perhaps the state) requires
- them to provide the 1:200 number on their informed consent form.
-
- Apparently this is different in New York City. A friend of mine who
- is 33, with an apriori risk of Downs of 1:600 was told that the risk
- of the amnio was the same as her apriori risk. I'm not sure if my
- friend got it right, or if she only heard what she wanted to hear.
-
- After the genetic counselling, we joined many people, including the 2
- other couples we started with, in the U/S waiting room. After about
- 45 minutes, we were put in an U/S room, and the U/S tech did a very
- thourough U/S, though she kept stopping the action, so I was convinced
- that the baby wasn't moving. The U/S was projected only a large TV
- suspended from the ceiling, so my husband was out of the way, but
- could see everything. Then the Amnio doctor came in, found a spot
- above the baby's head, tapped me, which I could see on the amnio, and
- then prepped me. Amnio is an invasive procedure, so they try to have
- a sterile area. I was draped, and my stomach scrubbed, though I
- didn't have to undress. The doctor tapped again, and then
- administered a local anesthetic. The anesthesia is only for my skin
- and abdomine, and was not administered to the uterus, because they
- don't want the baby to be anesthitized. So when he inserted the amnio
- needle, which is huge (I primarily looked at the U/S, not at me) I
- didn't feel anything until he hit my uterus. Then it hurt. He said
- that it would be no worse than menstrual cramps, but this was a sharp
- pain, and I could feel the needle go through the uterus. Unlike when
- they take blood, I could not feel the amniotic fluid leave me. It was
- over very quickly. They told us about warning signs, and the doctor
- squrted some amniotic fluid on my fingers so that I could tell the
- difference between leaking amniotic fluid and urine. It looks like
- urine, (it's pale yellow) but has no real odor.
-
- The real danger in amnio is infection of the amniotic fluid. All risk
- of that is gone in 3 weeks. The other fear is leaking amniotic fluid.
- If all of the fluid leaks out, the baby will be stillborn. I leaked a
- very small amount, very slowly, and immediately went to the midwife's
- office. The U/S showed lots and lots of amniotic fluid, and that my
- cervix was tightly closed. I was told that if I was still leaking in
- 2 days to come back. The leaking stopped that night.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 3:
-
- I had three ultrasounds, mostly because my ob/gyn is an ultrasonographer.
- None of the ultrasounds caught that my daughter is missing her left
- arm below the elbow from amniotic banding.
-
- I am glad I didn't know, because I would have worried that the missing
- hand&arm was just the tip of the iceberg, and that she had a whole
- bunch of other things wrong with her. I have been told that it is actually
- more common for a distal limb defect to be one part of a larger genetic
- problem, than for it to be an isolated problem. Amniotic banding
- occurs in about 1 every 5,000 to 10,000 births. I assume you are
- familiar with this--if not, email me and I will send an explanation.
-
- In any future pregnancies, I plan on having a level 2 US, just
- for peace of mind. I'm not worried about this problem repeating
- itself, becauseI consider it to be a minor one. I'm more worried
- about something else being wrong.
-
- Once you have a baby who is not textbook perfect, it makes you feel
- very vulnerable. You no longer have that "it could never happen
- to me" safe feeling. It is as if the door to birth defect city
- has been opened, and now anything could happen.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 4:
-
- We've decided to go with the ultrasound alone. While there are no risks
- associated with the AFP, we wouldn't know what to do with a positive
- result other than worry. (We don't want to do an amnio, and we certainly
- wouldn't abort given just the [highly unreliable] AFP.) If something is
- drastically wrong, it will probably show up on the ultrasound. Else,
- we'll just have to cross that bridge when we come to it.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 6:
-
- I'd say with my first pregnancy that we were just naive and in awe of the
- process
- we were going through. My doctor didn't PUSH the AFP, but I went ahead and
- had it. It came back "borderline" high. Retest was the same. We went through
- a lot after that (although not near as much as some people, I'd say), and our
- first response to the possibility of having the test with a subsequent
- pregnancy
- was NO. But, overall, we feel like we truly did gain information, and while we
- didn't have to go so far as deciding whether to abort or not, I think it was a
- first step in preparing us for the problems we were to face (premature birth).
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 7:
-
- For us it was a combination of things. We decided to have a US done for
- the following reasons:
-
- a) fetal age. The doctor was insisting that I was X weeks pregnant, even
- if I was measuring a little small. I said I didn't think so, because I
- have genetic amenorhea, and I showed zilch for symptoms during the first
- eight weeks, according to his date.
-
- b) my fiance' had spent several years guarding nuclear missles in the
- military, at levels an order of magnitude higher than what is acceptable now.
-
- c) He also went to desert storm, along with the full compliment of shots.
- We had both heard that some nasty anomalities (like missing limbs) had
- been occuring in the desert storm babies.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Dena Rollo (rollo@xylogics.com):
-
- I was 37 when Isabel was born, and did not even consider not having
- amnio done - I really wanted the information and the reassurance; fully
- expected to find out that the baby was perfectly healthy; and was
- sure that I'd choose to terminate the pregnancy if we found out
- otherwise. I also *really* wanted a girl, as did Michael (my partner),
- and I wanted to know the baby's gender, in order to prepare myself
- so I'd feel positive about a boy if that's what it was. But Michael
- didn't want to know gender, so I agreed to not find out.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 8:
-
- I decided to get the amnio based on my age (36 at the time) and
- the fact that I was single: if there was anything wrong, knowing
- about it ahead of time would give me a chance to prepare.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 9:
-
- At my visit, around week 12, the Specialist gave me a form and told me that some
- more
- routine blood tests were required. I was told to go and have the test done at
- the 17th
- week. This was rather confusing for me, because I did not agree with his method
- of
- calculating the pregnancy dates. I ovulate on the 21st day of my cycle, and
- pregnancy
- is always calculated from the LMP. So, I had the test done at 16 weeks, not
- 17. As I
- was unaware of the high outcome of false positives and negatives, I opted for
- the test,
- as I would have the pregnancy terminated if the baby was downs or had spina
- bifida.
- -----------------------------------------
-
-
-
- Q4. Are there benefits for people who would not abort, and, if so, are they
- large enough to be worth doing the test?
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Robbrenner@aol.com (Robert Brenner MD):
-
- 4. Prenatal testing is beneficial even for those who aren't willing to
- terminate the pregnancy. I have addressed this issue in the above answers.
- (see answer to 2c)
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Trish Jalbert (TJalbert@aol.com):
-
- I could see that some people would like to know beforehand so that they
- could prepare themselves. I had volunteered at camps for "retarded" (I
- *hate* that word) kids when I was in high school and college and felt
- comfortable with my image of kids with DS, so it was different for us.
- However, with Miranda's heart problems it would have been nice to know about
- the DS, because then they would have done an echocardiogram (ultrasound of
- her heart) and when we found out about the problems we might have scheduled a
- cesarean so as not to tax her. (I ended up with one anyway because she was
- late and ended up with really bad meconium problems. Too much for one kid!)
- It's all a personal decision.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 2:
-
- I can absolutely say I would never abort a baby but, as mentioned above,
- I do feel that I would like some advance notice if possible if there were
- to be any problems. As it turned out, our daughter was born 7 weeks early
- and it wasn't due to any cause that could have been pre-determined, yet I'm
- glad I had the tests for my own peace of mind.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 6:
-
- Boy, I don't know about this. I can't say unequivocally that I would never
- abort under any circumstances, but I have also never been put in the
- situation to have to make a decision like that. We were not having the
- test to see if we should abort or not - I feel like the more info we can have
- ahead of time, the better.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 7:
-
- a) Age was not something to abort for, and as it turns out, I was almost
- 5 weeks less pregnant than the doc wanted to believe, with an above
- average amount of amniotic fluid. I feel on this point the test was more
- than worth it so that our baby won't be induced early because the doctor
- thinks it is late.
-
- b & c) For these anomalities we probably would have aborted, but as each
- arm, leg, finger, toe, etc was counted we almost cried with joy. No
- anomalites whatsoever. The US was well worth it to us for peace of mind,
- instead of months agonizing over if there were anything wrong.
-
- Being able to see the baby moving around and such was a bonus for us.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Dena Rollo:
-
- I *would* abort , so I'm not really qualified to answer this, but I do
- think there are benefits regardless - knowing that you're expecting
- a child with a specific defect/disability/problem can help prepare
- the family emotionally, and gives you time to make any necessary
- practical arrangements (will a parent have to stay home? will you
- need special equipment? help? institutional care?) or explore treatment
- options (early intervention can make a huge difference in outcome, and
- there's enough to deal with with a newborn without having to research
- this too!) as well as make special birthing arrangements, if necessary
- (you may need more medical intervention for the baby than is available
- at the facility you've chosen)
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 8:
-
- To me, the biggest benefit is that your birth choices might be affected.
- For example, in the case of spinal bifida, you would probably be safer
- to have a scheduled c-section. At the very least you could have the
- neo-natologist standing by.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 9:
-
- There are probably no benefits for those having the test who would not abort
- unless the
- method of delivery will make a difference on the outcome of the severity
- (eg:Spina Bifida).
- -----------------------------------------
-
-
- Q5. If you got bad news on a prenatal test, how did you respond? How did
- you go about deciding what to do about these results?
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 1:
-
- We terminated a pregnancy in May 1994, due to information obtained from an
- amino. Our reasons for doing the amino we strickly age related, I was 37
- at the time, had 1 miscarriage in 1989 and 1 healthy child in 1991. We
- had no family history of genetic disorders and believed that we were just
- doing the amino to determine the risks of caring a Downs baby.
-
- The results of our amino came back in record time, one week. The genetic
- counselor called to let me know that they had found something, a marker,
- but were unable to determine how active it was at the time. Therefore
- they wanted to do testing on both my husband and I to determine more about
- the marker. We were told at that time that markers are not uncommon and
- do not necessarily mean bad news. We were there for the blood tests
- within the hour. The counsler promised they would do the tests over the
- weekend and let us know as soon as possible. This was a Friday afternoon,
- Monday afternoon I couldn't wait any longer and called the counsler, she
- knew and it was not good.
-
- The baby I was carrying had Trisomy7P, a seldom seen extra chromosome. I
- carry a translocation of the 7th and 15th chromosome, because the pieces
- that broke loose and reattached were of the exact same size I have
- experienced no abverse effects. So what did this mean for our unborn
- child, no one seemed to know exactly. We were referred to the prenatal
- genetics clinic. No one we talked to had any experience with this. After
- extensive research, it was discovered that there were only 3 report cases.
- The expected IQ for this child was some where below 20, with a life
- expectance of less than one year that would require extensive surgery to
- make that. We could expect severe heart defects, under development of
- lungs and liver, respiratory difficulties and more. The odds were this
- child would never leave the hospital.
-
- How did we make this decision, with alot help from God. We talked, we
- cried, we held our daughter tight and we prayed. My husband and I came
- to our decision independantly and for very different reasons, but we came
- to the same conclusion, we could not allow our baby to suffer needlessly.
- Exactly one week after learning the final results of our amino, I under
- went a D&E.
-
- I have never doubted our decision, but even now I must fight back the
- tears, I will never forget our daughter.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Trish Jalbert (TJalbert@aol.com):
-
- When we got the AFP results we went to the followup where they would have
- done the amnio if we wanted. Instead, after talking with the staff, we ended
- up in a coffee shop having what I think of as one of life's really big talks.
- We decided that people with disabilities are still people and we had wanted
- this baby. We figured it was still only a 3% risk. I think the statistics
- they give you are misleading. We should have looked instead at how much the
- risk had increased. When she was born and we found out about the DS it was a
- big shock and we cried a lot. But more pressing at the time was how sick she
- was from meconium- we almost lost her, so the DS seemed trivial, if you can
- believe it. Sometimes I'm still jealous of people with regular kids. But I
- love her, and I wouldn't give her away for anything, not even a regular kid.
- Guess we'll just have to make one of those next time.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 2:
-
- Depending on what the news was, I suppose I could have many different
- reactions. If I found out my child were going to have some specific
- life-long condition I would be very sad but would, in time, try to find out
- as much ahead of time as I could about what to do to best help the child.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 6:
-
- Well, "borderline" high on the AFP wasn't *devastating* news, and my
- doctor's approach was to do a very in-depth ultrasound first, and take
- a good look at the spine (and everything really), and go from there.
- Everything from the ultrasound looked perfect. Then he said it was up
- to us if we wanted to have an amnio. We immediately declined. We
- thought we had seen enough info from the ultrasound. AFTER we declined,
- the doctor said he agreed. He didn't try to sway us either way. This
- doctor also said that sometimes high AFP can indicate future growth
- problems in the fetus, so they would do two more ultrasounds at something
- like 26 and 28 weeks to make sure the baby was growing properly. These
- ultrasounds showed fine growth. I think all of this put our guard up somewhat.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Dena Rollo:
-
- Isabel (my three year old (today!!) has a chromosomal translocation -
- we were referred for genetic counseling, more tests, etc. It was a
- devastating experience - words simply cannot convey how incredibly
- awful it was. At the end of all the tests, we were left with a 7%
- chance that the baby would be born with severe clinical problems.
- Although we had both thought we'd choose to abort, we weren't expecting
- such a "gray area" result - we'd thought that either the baby would
- be healthy, or definitely not. Faced with fairly "good" odds (that
- didn't seem good *at all* when it's your baby!) and the horror (to
- me) of a 2nd trimester abortion) and the information (at the height of
- our despair, I *needed* to know the baby's gender for some reason, and
- Michael said okay) that this was our much-longed-for girl, we decided
- to go ahead with the pregnancy. The last four months were grim, but
- Isabel was born healthy and beautiful, exactly three years ago today.
- Oddly enough, both Michael and I agree that , were we faced with the
- same decision today, we'd choose to abort, as we simply love Isabel
- too much to have taken that risk for her - but that's hindsight -
- and we're so glad we got so lucky!!!!
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 8:
-
- I had the worse possible news during the ultrasound I had
- before the amnio. The amnio confirmed the radiologist's suspicion
- of a chromosomal abnormality: monosomy 13 -- the lack of one
- of the 13th pair of chromosomes. My son had multiple major
- abnormalities, the combination of which were fatal. They included
- hydrocephaly, spinal bifida, a hole in his heart, fluid in his
- chest cavity, one kidney. I was 4 months pregnant.
-
- My response was to 1) wait for confirmation by the amnio results,
- 2) research the hell out the the various "syndromes" the genetics
- counselor thought it might be and 3) get support (counseling).
- The 2 week wait for the amnio results was horrible, but it did
- give me a lot of time to gather information to make an informed
- decision. By the time I got the diagnosis, I knew I would terminate
- rather than let him be born only to die. I remember that there
- was some talk that this pregnancy could be dangerous to me, but
- I don't remember what the reasoning was for this.
-
- I was given two options: D and E or prostaglandin induction. I
- decided on the induction because I could not stand the thought of
- him suffering or being dismembered. The induction took 24 hours.
- The prostaglandins made me very ill (nausea mainly). He was born
- dead. I got to see him and say goodbye, and for that I am very
- grateful.
-
- This was easily the most painful thing I have ever experienced.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 9:
-
- If you got bad news on a prenatal test, how did you respond?
-
- My Specialist was unusually extra nice at my next appointment. He explained to
- me that
- my ultrasound pictures were great, test for spina bifida ok, but ... I scored a
- negative with
- the Downs Syndrome test - I scored 1/130 and I am only 29. Even though I was
- sure my
- dates would have been out a week he stated that the ultrasound confirmed that I
- was
- probably half a week behind his calculations and that it would make no
- difference to the
- outcome of the results. The Specialist had already booked me in for the amnio
- before
- I had fronted up t to find out the news.
-
- I went into a mad panic, could not eat for a few days as I was worrying about
- whether
- it was worththe risk of miscarrying from having an amnio, especially if there
- was nothing
- wrong with the child. I lost about 5 pounds that week, and alot of sleep. The
- day of the
- amnio arrived and got quite worked up. Even though I could not feel a thing,
- the
- psychological impact of it all caused me to faint (I was lying down too). I was
- then told
- that the results would take 3 weeks, and if I hadn't heard anything, it meant
- good news.
-
- How did you go about deciding what to do about these results?
-
- I agonised over this for a while whilst waiting for the results. The amnio was
- done 2
- weeks before the Christmas break and my Specialist was retiring. I began to
- worry
- that by the time of my next appointment I would be about 24 weeks along in my
- pregnancy and that it would be too late to terminate. I actually had nightmares
- of
- having to give birth to it, and then hearing it try and gasp for breath once
- delivered. I
- tried to contact the Specialist, but no answer - closed for the Christmas
- holidays.
- Again, more weight was lost. Eventually, I managed to get through, he assured
- me
- that no news was good news and that he would not let me get too advanced before
- a
- termination, and described the procedure. Anyway, a week later and still not
- hearing any
- news was very unsettling (like to have it confirmed). I rang again and found
- out that all
- was OK. That was the best news ever.
- -----------------------------------------
-
- Q6. Any people who have had children (siblings, etc.) with some of the
- defects screened for who would like to share their experiences?
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Trish Jalbert (TJalbert@aol.com):
-
- I cannot stress enough how I feel about eugenics. Some people find it
- ironic- I am *very* pro-choice, but I am against aborting babies if they have
- non-fatal birth defects. (Something like Tay Sachs is different- what a
- horrid situation for baby and parents, and there's no hope at all.) I look
- at it this way: if you wanted a child, it is not responsible to abort just
- because there's a problem. Parents are supposed to love unconditionally, and
- aborting your baby because you don't like some aspect of them is certainly
- not unconditional. That said, I know some people couldn't handle life with a
- child with a disability. I struggle with how I feel about those folks. What
- I want to say is: then maybe you shouldn't be parents at all, since parenting
- isn't supposed to be easy. But I also want to be compassionate. There is
- always the option of adoption- there is a waiting list for DS babies! But I
- wouldn't want to be forced to have a baby I didn't want, and that's why I'm
- pro-choice in the first place. It's a hard call for me. I have only met one
- person since Miranda was born who told me point-blank that she would have
- aborted. I didn't particularly care for her before she told me this- she
- wasn't very nice to Miranda, so I suppose I had guessed already. No one has
- yet to tell me *I* should have aborted, thank goodness.
- I think that it's critical that before a decision to abort is made that the
- parents-to-be actually spend some time with parents and a child with the
- particular disability. The unknown causes a lot of fear, and I think people
- might find that there is less to worry about than they would have supposed.
- I wouldn't mind at all showing Miranda off. And I guess I already have a
- bit of a personal crusade to educate everyone else about what wonderful
- people people with Down Syndrome really are. Don't rely just on the genetics
- counselor or what you have heard before- this is YOUR CHILD. Spend some
- time, difficult though it may be, to make the decision. My attitude is that
- we are all different anyway, and that we would do well to accept each other a
- little better. This is this first step to accepting that you can't totally
- program your child, too. He or she is going to be who he or she is- not who
- you necessarily dream about them becoming. Sure I wish that Miranda had only
- 46 chromosomes. But she doesn't, and just because one of us gave her a
- little extra doesn't mean that we love her a little less. I am already in
- these 3 short months a much better person than I was before.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 2:
-
- My friend's nephew was born with the condition Trisomy 13 which they
- detected a few months before his birth. This condition is almost 100 per
- cent fatal and my friends brother and sister-in-law were, of course,
- extremely saddened by the news. Yet they were glad to have the fore-warning
- and when the time came for him to be born they were as prepared as they
- could be for his death. Sadly, he lived only an hour. They are still
- recovering from his death but I do not sense in any way that they regret
- knowing ahead of time that he would be born with this condition. It seemed
- to help them prepare for their altered reality.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 6:
-
- My son was born premature (at 32 weeks) and was diagnosed with a
- profound hearing loss before he left the NICU, but of course, none
- of this is actually screened for. I *do* think, to this day, that that AFP
- result was *some* indicator of problems to come. I'll never know that
- for sure, since the ultrasounds seemed to suggest a false positive, and
- he did not have spina bifida or anything like that. But, in my heart, I
- believe there is some connection.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Dena Rollo:
-
- My mother's first child was born with multiple birth defects, and died
- when she was two, before my older sister or I was born. An abortion
- would have been much easier for my mother to deal with than was
- Kathy's birth and subsequent death, but prenatal testing was unavailable
- 45 years ago. I have worked extensively with retarded children and
- adolescents (many of them with Down's) and don't for a minute doubt
- that living with and loving children like these can be a wonderful
- experience for the child and for the rest of the family. But it
- should be the family's decision, in my opinion.
- -----------------------------------------
-
-
- Q7. Any people who *have* one of the disabilities in question who would
- like to share their experiences?
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 5:
-
- I don't have any experiences with testing but I have spina bifida.
- As a person with a disability, I want to point out (without getting into
- this long and unpleasant debate) that purely from a social science
- perspective, I think you are biasing your survey by using the term "birth
- defect". This highly offensive term implies people with disabilities are
- defective and reveals a bias (whether intended or not as I imagine it may
- not be your position at all) in favour of aborting fetuses diagnosed as
- having a disability. A better term would simply be disability so people
- could decide for themselves. And no, I am not some anti-choice bigot and
- thoroughly 100% pro-choice on all issues except aborting fetuses with
- disabilities.
- -----------------------------------------
-
-
- Q8. Any other personal experiences which would be helpful to people
- considering prenatal testing for disabilities?
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 6:
-
- I don't know how we would have reacted to a similar (or worse) AFP test
- outcome in my second pregnancy. At the time, we had a son with cancer,
- and couldn't have taken much more. Like I said above, *I* feel that that
- borderline high AFP was the first indicator that Aaron was going to have
- problems. And he did - premature birth, hearing loss, leukemia at 11
- months old, and he died at age 23 months. I'm sure no doctor would
- concur that those things were related, but I'll always think they were.
- We were also glad to have the doctor check the fetus' growth at 26-28
- weeks. It would be scary if we got bad results again (especially after
- what we went through with Aaron), but we are simply the type of people
- who want to know everything we can as early as we can. It helps us
- prepare and cope.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 8:
-
- Remember that you can get bad news! Bring someone with you for the
- test. If you get bad news you may not be able to function too well
- after the test. For example, I couldn't remember the phone number
- to work, to let them know I wasn't coming back afterwards.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 9:
-
- Have since learned that lots of people go through very similar experiences with
- the
- results of these tests. Thanks to this FAQ, I found it good to hear that there
- were so
- many people in the same situation that had happy outcomes. Once talking to
- others (you
- never hear any dark sides of pregnancy, only the childbirthing experiences), I
- also found
- out that it was very common to get false negatives on the AFP and triple screen.
- This
- was reassuring, but I still believed that I was going to be that unlucky one of
- the 130.
- -----------------------------------------
-
-
- Q9. How have people decided whether or not they wished to be told the sex?
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 2:
-
- I would have liked to have known ahead of time but my husband did not. We
- agreed that we would not ask and, as it turned out, it could not be seen
- on the ultrasound anyway. One woman I know who had amniocentisis learned
- the gender of her baby because she wanted her grandmother, who was dying,
- to know whether she was going to have a boy or girl. That was somewhat of
- a unique situation I thought.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 4:
-
- In general, information is a good thing. If someone else knows my baby's
- sex, I'm certainly not afraid to know it too! (And for those people who
- think the surprise is the fun part -- fine! We won't tell you!) On the
- other hand, we are not going to take any special steps to be sure that
- we find out. If the sex shows up clearly on the ultrasound, I won't hide
- my eyes. If not, we can wait. I'm not so bound up in the question of
- sex that it's a really critical question for me.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 6:
-
- I'm not set in one way or the other. With Aaron, we knew. It was what we
- wanted. With Katelyn, we didn't (and not because we chose not to - there
- was just no occasion to find out; we had no problems, so had only one very
- early ultrasound, and no amnio). It was pretty neat when I was in labor to
- *still* not know. My husband kept saying he wanted to know before the
- baby was born. I think if the occasion came up to find out, we'd find out,
- otherwise, it would be okay too. The closer it got to the time for the baby
- to be born, the easier it was to *not* know. :-)
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 7:
-
- We decided we wanted to know. I think the philosophy behind it was that,
- whether now or at birth, the gender would be the same, so why not? The
- little one, however, was not being cooperative. The tech thinks it is a
- boy, but she couldn't be certain because the baby kept curling up and
- hiding the info from her.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- From Dena Rollo:
-
- see above.
-
- -----------------------------------------
- Anonymous response 9:
-
- I wanted to know the sex from the beginning and knew what it was before all the
- amnio etc was carried out. Of course it was nice having the amnio confirm the
- sex.
-
-